tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030515275018074435.post646354745938768830..comments2023-11-05T13:46:39.318+01:00Comments on Another Day - Another Destiny: GriefJessicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04704596454410699694noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030515275018074435.post-24406576382774576452011-03-09T19:59:23.672+01:002011-03-09T19:59:23.672+01:00Alexandra: Du har helt rätt, förstås ... Det är ar...<b>Alexandra:</b> Du har helt rätt, förstås ... Det är arbetsamt att det tar tid, men det kan jag nog inse och ta till mig, jag tycker mest det är jobbigt att det känns som jag hela tiden måste få det att se ut som jag inte längre är berörd av det - samtidigt som det känns som jag håller på att gå sönder inombords.<br /><br /><b>The Darkest Night</b>: <br />Thank you for your comment. I know I shouldn't worry about everyone else, but I have a tendency to do that anyway ... <br />I honestly haven't had a chance to deal with my grief, at least not in a way that I feel I need to, since things have been so insane here the last few months. I'm hoping to - even though things are still intense - take that time now, because honestly, I don't think I'll cope trying to push everything aside now, I've been doing it for several months and it just won't work any more ...Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04704596454410699694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030515275018074435.post-50858160376568777722011-03-07T18:55:42.391+01:002011-03-07T18:55:42.391+01:00Grief has a way of taking its time...it can be blo...Grief has a way of taking its time...it can be blocked from our memory for a while, but it doesn't go away until we deal with it. <br /><br />In a way I don't think it ever goes away, we just in some way get used to living with pain. <br /><br />I do think thinking about it and talking about it helps some, and after a while the memory is not only painful anymore. <br /><br />Try not to care what other people think. You lost someone important to you, and you have the right to be sad about it. <br /><br />Take care! hugsThe Darkest Nighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07690635716982191018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5030515275018074435.post-54297095806692629512011-03-07T16:56:58.571+01:002011-03-07T16:56:58.571+01:00Det tar tid! Mycket längre än man tror och vill, d...Det tar tid! Mycket längre än man tror och vill, det är så det funkar. KramAlexandranoreply@blogger.com